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HIV testing

So it’s a law in New York that if you are admitted into an emergency room in a New York hospital, the staff HAS TO ask you if you’d like a HIV test performed while you’re there.

  • Mind you, the hospital won’t pay for the testing, that’s on you (but they don’t tell you that, at least, initially).
  • Mind you, age is no barrier: they will ask you if you’re 12 years old (Sheesh!!).
  • Mind you, the law just states that they just have to ask and show proof that they did ask (appropriate forms must be filled).

My question: with all that’s going on politically, economically, socially in this country, in this state, who was the Einstein who came up with this brainstorm and then believed this little time-saving nugget of an achievement was worth authoring and fighting for?

The Ash Tree

He had a small house. So small it was easily dwarfed by the 40-foot ash tree that stood regally not 20 feet from the house in the backwoods. When people came down his driveway, they oohed and aahed over the sheer size and graceful stateliness of the arbor. Storms couldn’t budge the tree, but they caused the man to worry about his house, for should the tree fall, it would destroy the house and everything in it. Of that, the man was sure.

And one day the mother of all storms raced across the countryside. Warnings started a week in advance. People were told to evacuate from the lower areas closer to the water. The man had to leave his house and find shelter elsewhere fearing the worse. For 4 days he sat in a shelter listening to the winds and rain pummel the building, raising images of the tree cracking and swooping down on his home. He didn’t sleep for those 4 days, so sure was he that the tree had crushed his house and destroyed his belongings. On the fifth day, he was allowed to leave and return home.

When he got there, he saw, to his great relief, that the graceful, beautiful ash still stood watch over his house and no damage was sustained. The man ran up to the great ash and hugged it and thanked it.

And in celebration of the tree not falling on his house, the next day he had it cut down, so he would worry no more.

Priorities amuck

So we go through this hand-wringing exercise at the end of every summer with our public school system: the kids cannot afford to miss preseason practice because they will miss games. A couple of years ago we went away during the last week of August for a major family reunion and the kids did not play in the first few games of the season until they attained a specific number of days of practice.

Now again we are going away for just Labor Day weekend (again big family get-together) and there is bitching and disgruntledness over the decision.

I am a big sports fan and I do get it, but question is: shouldn’t we be setting these kinds of high bars on the (admittedly more important, and reason for being there in the first place) educational side of the house?


Heard on *Local Phone Monopoly* Customer Service Call

Now I do like my *Local Phone Monopoly* company, but I have had occasion to call them any number of times when FIOS (oops!) just wasn’t working as advertised.

So I would dutifully dial the customer service number and while waiting for a real person to answer the other end, a very chipper female voice informed me that “if you are having trouble connecting to the internet with FIOS and you don’t want to stay on the phone, you can reach us at…..”

But wait! I’m having trouble connecting to the internet, how can I connect to

I can see the automated clerk getting a nervous tic trying to answer that question: “Please try again, that was not a valid response. To get to the Main menu, press star….”

How to tell a product really sucks

Easy clue: if at the end of a commercial you hear “And if you act now, we’ll throw in a second one for free!! Just pay shipping and handling.”

That’s the only clue you need.

Some fun examples

Ooops! That tricky Shipping and Handling clause ….

Maybe Cosmetic surgeons should offer this with implants! 🙂

The Gardener

There once was a man who loved to garden. Year after year he would work in his gardens. At first his gardens were quite ordinary, but as the years went by they developed a certain maturity. His neighbors, unbeknownst to him, would throw small parties so that others could appreciate his gardens. His gardens, over the years, became the talk of the county. Everyone he passed on the street, if they recognized him, would remark to him how beautiful his gardens were. He would thank them and say wait till next year. And next year would always be better.

As time went by, the gardens became a place for wildlife to take refuge and enjoy. Bees, butterflies, birds and hummingbirds, deer, rabbit, the occasional fox, wolf and coyote would all stop by and admire the man’s handiwork. Often while gardening, a monarch or hummingbird would stop to enjoy his garden and put on a display of appreciation for him. He took to bringing a camera with him when he worked in his gardens, but was never able to get a shot of them in his gardens. They proved to be too elusive.

Truth be told, while the man loved his gardens, he hated weeding, but understood it to be a necessary evil. Every day he went out to weed, he would think of friends who were out playing and feel a sense of jealousy however briefly. But he knew he loved what he was doing and he knew he loved the results. So he toiled relentlessly in his gardens, always planning for next year, creating visions in his mind of how things could be improved.

One day while gardening, the man experienced a perfect moment of peace: there were no issues, no problems, his mind was as clear as the sky, his eyes as radiant as the sun.

At that moment of peace, he laid down in his garden and peacefully died. His camera fell from his pants pocket and flipped on. From nowhere butterflies appeared and covered his body. The elusive hummingbirds came in droves as well as bees and other birds. Deer, rabbit, fox, raccoon, wolf, opossum and others all gathered beside his gardens and knelt before the man. Only a baby rabbit, not knowing any better displayed some disrespect and started eating at a leaf, but he was quickly slapped by his parents for not showing respect.

After a few moments, the flyers picked up his body and flew it away, leaving his perfect garden in perfect harmony.

And a camera with the most amazing shots of nature’s displays of affections.